phantomddl, I have posted some info on the steps I used to recover a dead player here:
http://www.mympxplayer.com/viewtopic...r=asc&&start=0
I suggest you download a few items from the Download Section under Tools and Firmware as well.
Get a selection of firmware, all the 3.2.16 versions you can find and there are a couple of full firmware versions there as well, they may be different versions but that is ok.
Get a program called s1res, you can use this to open the firmware files and see the images inside. Look for ones where most of the images used in menus etc are similar to yours.
As you do not have a backup trying to finding the right firmware is going to be trial and error. You may have to repeat the process a few times till you find the right one.