I dunno about yours, but mine has only one bitmap for each of the menus.. =P
Try to "copy & paste" the menu bitmap of the iPod, and then rename it to the other frames you have in your menu. About the words, it shoulb be alright, since it's "fusioned" with the picture.. =T

mine has about 6 images for one menue item. Like music has 6 images for it.

Try to copy and paste it! ;)
Then you replace each picture with the same copied one of the iPod got it? ^^

thats what i'm doing, but it shows the messed up version. Do I need to just put the pictures in just 4 images instead of all 6?

Then try photoshoping it to fit your screen! ;)
You can also modify some things, like the battery, you can put it on.. ^^
I don't think you have to put the pics in 4 frames instead of 6. =T

Can someone send me the ipod firmware? The actual apple ipod nano firmware.

I don't think someone here has an iPod.. =P
So, you probably won't be able to get this firmware...
Besides, iPod firmware is A LOT different, starting by the "touch panel" for moving..
DON'T TRY TO PUT IT ON YOUR MPX, OR YOU'LL FRY IT!

I just want some of the pictures.

Try getting in the oficial iPod website! ;D
You'll probably will find some menu images and whatelse! ^^