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umm i have da one with speacker in da back the screen is 1.8" and so on... how do i change the stupid flower?

Pmp inc, Depending on what chipset your player uses. If it is a standard Action chipset then:

You need to first extract your firmware from your player using s1fwx.
Download HERE
Guide HERE

Then you can change the images using s1res
Download HERE
Guide HERE

Then reload your firmware to your player using MP3 Player Utilities Update Tool
Download HERE
Guide HERE

And you will find all sorts of theming resources HERE